Like a very wise man once said, Carpe Diem; “Sieze the day.”

If the planets are aligned and the music of your heart is enticing you to trust your feelings and to act upon your primal instincts, then “sex it up” on that first date.

An article on the website EmandLo.com, titled “Wise guys; is sex on the first date a relationship killer,” contains responses from readers boasting how their sexual encounter on the first date had happy endings.

Many of the responses on this website shared how many of the men who had sex on the first date had relationships that lasted several years.

And having sex on the first date won’t necessarily ruin things between  couples.

If you are worried about that other person losing interest once they get a little sample, be aware that if he or she is in it only for the sex, he or she shouldn’t even be worth your time in the first place.

Sex on the first date can whittle out unkeepables or even people that you don’t seem to have any chemistry with.

If a woman or a man truly loves you, she or he will stay because of reasons beyond sex alone.

Knowing that the two of you have great chemistry in bed can lead to a stronger relationship and can eventually progress into love.  And don’t be afraid that sex might kill the “mystery”.

Won’t the mystery die out anyway when you do end up having sex?

Why prolong the inevitable?

Even if your sexual encounter does not extend beyond a one night stand, you might score more personal, self building feelings. One may not get a significant other out of the experience, but one may definitely change for the better because of it.

Let us not forget experience.

And if nothing good comes out of it at all, think of it this way; at least you got laid. Be happy about that. Nothing can take that away from you.

Who is to say you will not die tomorrow, right after you read this article? We are all young, we must enjoy life to its fullest.  You have to do what feels right.

Next time you have a date with someone, and the sparks are flying, test the waters and dive right in and go along for the ride.

Whether it is having sex on the first date or not, it is all up to you and is no one else’s concern.

However, remember that if you do decide to engage in sexual activity on the first date, do it responsibly and always protect not only yourself, but your partner as well.